When you get up in the morning what do you wear?
When we first meet our husbands we took hours and even shopping trips to pick out the perfect outfit for him to see us in. Our hair was done. Our make up was perfect. Not saying we have to be like this ever minute of the 24 hours day but let's be honest with ourselves. Who wants to come home to a ugly slob?
You may say " he married me unconditional" Yes I agree with you but please, you would not like a stinky, dirty slob of a man for your husband. Is it not nice when he just comes out of the shower all shaved and smelling good of colone and clean nice clothes on. Don't you just want to hug him and sniff him during the hug! You need to keep yourself at least nice and clean and somewhat attractive too.
Exercise, watch what you eat, do your hair, get out of those fuzzy slippers and stretchy pants! I bet you will feel much better about yourself with more energy and less house wife blues. It's just plan good not only for your marriage but your health too!
Not having the clothes to wear is not an excuse. With the thrift stores out there and Freecycle you can get many inexpensive pieces for your wardrobe and even free ones. They will add up slowly and surly without breaking the budget.
Not asking you to wear heels or look sexy just clean, nice and tidy for your husband for when he comes home. Show him you still fuss over him. Show him you still care about yourself and care about him. He will be very flattered you even still care.
Don't forget your armor during the day when you do your task for your homemaking. This will keep all those nice clothes clean and stain free. Make a few new aprons (aka armor) to match those new nice outfits.
Honor, please and tend to your husband, home and family as a woman of God should do!
Don't forget to take a few minutes with the lord and write in your journals.
Mama Oak
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